Holding on to the past. Its such a dirty habit but so many people hold on to things from their past dont they. like me. Maybe its a good thing, where it gives hope and courage. But maybe its a horrible thing that keeps you from moving on.
People hold on to memories of people and places or little memoirs that belong to a person.I knew of someone who keeps every little thing that his girlfriend didnt want. It freaked me out when i heard that for its strangeness and at the same time i wonder is it so strange?
We hold on to many things, just like photographs or videos. so is it really strange that he collects such objects? And in a weird way and i mean a really weird way its such an adorable thing.
The greatest thing above everything is just to love and be loved in return. Isnt that what brought the characters of Nicole kidman and Evan Mcgregor together in Moulin Rouge. But what about in the cruel reality? Things like that dont bring people together and when you have to part ways for whatever reasons.
Its so hard to let go. You end up screwing yourself with the memories.
Which in turn makes everything a lot worse. You end up emotionally charged about everylittle thing. And that is utterly embarrassing. Memories haunt you constantly and cutting all contacts with one person doesnt reallly stop them. Is that the easiest way to let go? But what happens if you keeping holding on to that person though it would be the correct thing to do?
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I’m in the exact same place as you are. And today, for the first time, I’m letting go.
You should do. The memories will be fresh for a long time and they’ll probably sustain and kill you simultaneously. But here’s hoping that they will fade. Eventually.
Good luck.
-Gypsy
You’ve been tagged!
Reflecting seems to clear stuff up… I think you should give it a go.